The Power of Words
Proverbs 18:20 A man's belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; and with the increase of his lips shall he be filled.
Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
This passage says that a man’s belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth, his words. The words we speak, then, produce fruit of some type in our lives. And it says that he shall be filled with the increase of his lips, not just the words he speaks, but the increase, the harvest those words produce.
Verse 21 says that death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they that love it, [love what?] love to speak words, love to talk, shall eat the fruit of their words.
The word for power in the phrase “power of the tongue" comes from a word that means hand. Death and life are in the hand of the tongue, a figure of speech meaning under the control of. Death and life are under the control of the tongue, or, that is, our words.
So, the Bible leaves little doubt that there is power in the words we speak, a power that affects primarily our own lives.
And, though our words do have a definite impact upon others in a good way or bad, the message in these verses is focused on the fact that the words we speak greatly affect our own lives. They produce fruit that we ourselves must eat.
Matthew 12:36 But I [Jesus] say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
Idle words, leisurely or lazy words, words we don’t even put much thought into. Do we sometimes speak those kinds of words? Of course. We all do at one time or another. But look at what Jesus says in the next verse.
Matthew 12:37 For by thy words [not actions, but words] thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.
Do words matter? After all, they’re just words. Right? Well, our words must be important if we are going to be judged by them, if they can justify us or condemn us.
Proverbs 13:3 He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.
This verse states that the one who keeps his mouth under control keeps his life. The one who opens his mouth wide and just says whatever he wants to shall have destruction.
Is it important what we say? Is it important what we don’t say? He that keeps his mouth keeps his life. If we restrain our mouths we’ll live longer. Otherwise, we may not.
Sinning with Words
Proverbs 10:19 In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise.
Did you know we can sin by talking? In the multitude of words, there is no lack of sin, And the Bible says that the wages of sin is death. So, the more we talk, the more we sin. Like one preacher said, the less I talk, the less I have to repent of.
The Bit in the Horse’s Mouth
There is a passage in the book of James where he compares the tongue, that is, our words, to a type of guiding force in our lives, much like the bit in a horse’s mouth or the rudder of a ship.
James 3:3 Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body.
A horse is big and much stronger than we are, but we can guide it by its mouth. We can pull its mouth one way, and it goes that way. If we pull it the other way, it goes the other way.
A horse will not move in a direction it is not looking toward. The direction we pull the horse’s mouth becomes the direction it’s looking in. And that becomes the direction it’s going in. It goes where it’s looking. What a beautiful analogy!
Now, remember, James is not teaching us about horses. He is talking about how our words affect our lives, and he uses the horse as an example. What is the message? It is that the direction we talk in is the direction we set our gaze upon, just like the horse, and it becomes the direction we move in our life.
Have you ever met someone who you regretted asking them how they were doing? Because it took about thirty minutes for them to tell you all the bad stuff going on in their life. They cannot take their words off of their problems. And we should, of course, help them and pray for them the best we can.
But they are always talking about the bad things in their life. Their gaze is always in that direction. And guess what, they are always moving in that direction. They will generally be in the same case when you see them five years later.
If we want to go in a different direction, then we need to pull our mouth in a different direction. Because when we pull our mouth another way, our gaze is fixed on something else, and that’s the direction we’ll start moving in, just like the horse.
The Helm of the Ship
James 3:4 Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor [the captain] listeth.
If we turn our tongue in a different direction, the whole ship will go that way. If we move the very small helm of a ship, like the tongue, the whole vessel will follow the helm’s direction.
James 3:5 Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth!
Just like the horse’s bit, just like a ship’s rudder, the tongue is a small member, yet it exerts great power over the direction of our life. And a spark is also a very small thing, but notice how big a fire it can kindle. He’s still talking about the power of the tongue, the power of our words.
The Wheel of Life
James 3:6 And the tongue is [indeed] a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.
The unbridled tongue is a world of iniquity, so much so that it, the tongue, though a small member, can defile the whole body, and it, the tongue, is able to set on fire the course of nature.
The course of nature. The word translated here as ‘course’ means wheel. The tongue sets in motion the wheel of nature, the wheel of life, if you will, the natural cycle of cause and effect. And it is set on fire by hell itself. Now that couldn’t be good.
So then, if we don’t bridle our tongue, then what comes out of our mouth may come from hell itself. Does it matter what we say? Of course, it does. Should we learn to bridle our tongues? Yes. It probably wouldn’t hurt some of us to learn the vocabulary of silence for a while, and maybe pray for a crop failure.
Unable to Speak
Remember Zacharias in the first chapter of Luke. The angel told him that his wife, Elizabeth, was going to have a child, and he shall be great in the sight of the Lord, and many would turn to the Lord because of him.
Luke 1:18 And Zacharias said unto the angel, Whereby shall I know this? for I am an old man, and my wife well stricken in years. [And you think we’re going to have a child?]
Luke 1:19 And the angel answering said unto him, I am Gabriel, that stand in the presence of God; and am sent to speak unto thee, and to shew thee these GLAD TIDINGS.
Luke 1:20 And, behold, thou shalt be dumb, and not able to speak, until the day that these things shall be performed, [Why?] because thou believest not my words, which shall be fulfilled in their season.
God was doing something in Zacharius’ and Elizabeth’s life, and Zacharias was about to mess it up with his unbelieving mouth. So, he had to be rendered speechless until it came to pass.
You see, the Bible says that our words set in motion the wheel of life, the cycle of cause and effect. And so, saying the right words should set in motion the wheel of life in a good way, while saying the wrong words will likely set it in motion in a destructive way.
We must agree with the promises of God with our mouths. And we must reject the things the devil speaks to us that are contrary to God’s promises. And then our words will produce good things in our lives.
2 Corinthians 10:4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)
2 Corinthians 10:5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;